You are already taking the first hard step and that is to look for help. I am a seasoned clinician with over 25 years experience.  I work with professionals, working people, the married, single and divorced.  My clients remark on how I help them sort out their life confusion, deal with loss and change, calm their anxiety, help improve their mood, and deepen and enrich their relationships.  I am knowledgeable and experienced in working with men, and women, seeking to resolve conflict, improve intimacy, and get over the pain of affairs. Please call to discuss the particulars of your situation.  I will be happy to let you know if I feel I can be of help, and if I am not the right person, I am happy to refer you to the person whom I think is the best fit for you.