The Story Behind The Story

by Julie Davis Monday, July 14, 2014


Consider this week that everything coming at you - anger, fear, judgment, criticism, avoidance - isn't personal; that it has a story behind it: 

-Spouse's anger might really be fear about his job.

-Child's resistance might actually be a natural development towards individuation.

-Boss's criticism might be rooted in his fear of being criticized by his boss. 

-Neighbor's avoidance of your "dog poop" letter might be he's busy taking care of sick grandma.


The only way to know is to ask.  This week - instead of getting defensive, offended, scared, angry - ask for the story behind the story.


Julie Davis uncovers and clears up deeply embedded beliefs and unresolved emotions that keep people stuck (  She also coaches people how to stay clear, calm and strategic in everyday life with healthy ways of thinking, feeling and behaving (  Get free weekly insight and guidance by joining Julie’s Tuesday Email service.  Send “subscribe” in subject line to:  Julie is a Certified Rapid Resolution Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (North Carolina, California; New York – pending), Board Certified Hypnotherapist, and New Life Network Christian Counselor (  704-807-1101.


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